Friday, January 10, 2014

I took some time off but I am back and ready to dish

Hello everyone, I had to take a little time off from the blog. I have a new found respect for people who make this their life's work, it is hard to put yourself and your life out there on a regular basis. While the majority of feedback I have received has been positive and supportive there are always those couple in the bunch that have to attack or just be downright cruel because they can. I thought I was prepared for that possibility but it turns out I was not and needed to do a little soul searching.

I also realized I was putting way to much pressure on myself to craft the perfect posts, to not offend anyone, to not hurt Elvis with my thoughts, to be liked by everyone who may choose to read these words. One thing about me is that I dread ever hurting someone's feelings, the thought that I may hurt a cross-dresser or their spouse by writing something insensitive was a grave concern as was of course the possibility I could hurt Elvis.

That being said I miss the support I was receiving from you all and the messages you sent for me were read or passed on to me so thank you for sticking with me while I took this reevaluation time.





2 comments:

  1. I'm glad I kept checking back! I hope you are doing better...I know you and your family have some additional stress coming up, and I wanted to encourage you to be strong! I know Evita is doing great, I know she loves you, and I don't think you'll hurt her with what you have to say. I know you won't hurt *me*! Keep on writing!

    - Amy

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  2. Glad to see you back. I hope you have a wonderful, restful, nonnerveracking New Year!!!

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